The belief that parents and families will be damaged by having a disabled child, and that this damage can be limited through abortion, is almost unquestioned today.
This has
been a major assumption accepted by many participants in the current debate on
abortion for anencephaly in Northern Ireland, on which I have recently
written.
But does
the medical literature bear this out?
The
question is an important one to ask both for Northern Ireland and for the rest
of UK where abortion for fetal disability is already legal up until the time of
birth.
Recent
statistics showed that between 2002 and 2010 there were 17,983
abortions of disabled babies in Britain. The overwhelming majority of these
were for conditions compatible with life outside the womb and 1,189 babies were
aborted after 24 weeks, the accepted age of viability.
This 17,983 included abortions for serious disabilities like
anencephaly but also babies with Down’s syndrome, cleft palate and club foot.
Psychological
trauma following abortion appears to be least when the pregnancy is early, when
there is no maternal ambiguity about the decision and when the child was most
definitely not wanted.
Conversely
psychological trauma is most marked with late, wanted pregnancies.
As
abortions for congenital abnormality usually occur in pregnancies that are both
late and wanted, it is not surprising therefore that psychological morbidity is
considerable.
Psychological morbidity following termination of pregnancy
for fetal disability is prevalent and persistent (1,2) and
associated with long-lasting consequences for a substantial number of women
(3).
Rather than leading to psychological well-being, termination
of pregnancy for fetal disability is an emotionally traumatic major life event
which leads to severe posttraumatic stress response and intense grief reactions
that are still detectable some years later (4).
People do not easily ‘get over it’ although proper support
during the loss can lessen psychological morbidity (5). In fact women who
terminate pregnancies for fetal anomalies experience grief as intense as those
who experience spontaneous perinatal loss with approximately a fifth developing
major depression and/or requiring psychiatric intervention (6).
Their families are also not immune with even very young
children and those sheltered from knowledge of the event showing reactions to
their parents’ distress and maternal absence (7).
Some may experience an acute grief reaction or be plagued by
guilt and fear that can precipitate marital breakdown. Additionally, there is a
risk that through striving to eradicate congenital disability, a community
risks promoting a cult of perfectionism that may have discriminatory effects on
disabled people (8).
By contrast, current data on children and families affected
by disabilities indicate that disability does not preclude a satisfying life.
Many problems attributed to the existence of a disability actually stem from
inadequate social arrangements that public health professionals should work to
change (9).
This, along with the psychological morbidity often
accompanying abortion for fetal disability has led many to conclude that
abortion for even severe fetal disability, as well as taking the life of a
disabled person, is also worse for the parents and families concerned.
This is underlined by a case report in which a mother,
against advice, chose to carry an eventually stillborn baby with anencephaly to
term. It was found afterwards that she was ‘managing well and was more
emotionally stable than the majority of women who underwent termination on
genetic grounds’ (10).
Janet
Goodall, a paediatrician with a lifetime’s experience of caring of severely
disabled children, describes the ‘pearl effect’.
‘In
a culture that views success and failure in materialistic terms, many perceive
disabled children as an extra burden.
But paradoxically, divorce rates and unhappiness are no
more common in the families of disabled children than in those with healthy
children.
Like the grit in the oyster that causes a pearl to form,
caring for a child with special needs often strengthens relational bonds and
encourages spiritual growth.
As the agony of Gethsemane led to resurrection life, so
the reciprocal love between the disabled child and his parents and the care
shown by professionals, families and churches can act as a catalyst for
maturity and stability.’(11)
The Christian ethic, which calls the strong to make
sacrifices for the weak, following Christ’s own example to us, leads to a
strengthening of family and society, by combating discrimination and
strengthening human virtues of patience, perseverance and altruism.
References
10. Watkins D. An alternative to termination of pregnancy. Practitioner 1989;233(1472):990,992 (8 July)
it is true..I have a baby with Sd and sometimes I wish to get another one, also with Sd...
ReplyDeleteIs this comment meant to be some kind of joke? If so, it's in very bad taste.
DeleteAlthough not a committed believer in any faith, I refused testing during my pregnancies as I knew personally I could not bear to terminate/kill my baby, no matter what, and I certainly did not wish to expose a much-more-than-likely normal child to the small but significant risk such testing could entail. As my final child was born when I was 42, this went against accepted medical advice.
ReplyDeleteI am pregnant and am refusing tests that have any chance of miscarriage. Nobody has put me under any pressure. The doctor at the scan said there's no point if you're not considering termination.
ReplyDeleteThat doctor is correct. At this time, there is no prenatal medical intervention which can help your baby. The only possible benefit is to give the family time to prepare for the challenges which caring for a child with Down syndrome may pose. The doctor can discuss that with you, but he can never tell you of the joy those of us who love our child with Down syndrome feel, and the joy they bring with them everywhere they go. For that you have to talk, as Dr Skotko did, to a parent.
ReplyDeleteThere is much more detail on Dr Stotko's groundbreaking research into effects on families of having a child with Down's syndrome here - http://bit.ly/1cZWY7i
DeleteThis is a beautiful article!
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